Only the one whose inner place was cherished can experience with his heart, not just senses, the smell of a flower, the touch of wind on his hair, or the taste of a berry.
The spiritual bond between the baby and his mother is so strong that it continues after the birth of the baby for 4 more years. This little body feels safe in his mother’s presence and scared of the world full of unfamiliar sounds when she is not around.
Govern your actions with respect to his emotional world and always try to put yourself in his tiny shoes to try and see the world through those innocent eyes full of love and devotion.
When all that he knew throughout his life is orders and expectations to behave a certain way – he loses self-control and the skills to judge what is good and what is bad by himself.
The forms of this demoralizing act can be physical, emotional or psychological. Someone said: “Advising a person in public is like insulting him.”
A child’s nature is sensitive to every little prick in family life. The only trusty guides kids have are their parents.
If you govern in your household by the rules you never explain properly so that little soul may understand and admit them – you teach external discipline – one without understanding.