If you govern in your household by the rules you never explain properly so that little soul may understand and admit them – you teach external discipline – one without understanding.
When all that he knew throughout his life is orders and expectations to behave a certain way – he loses self-control and the skills to judge what is good and what is bad by himself.
Only the one whose inner place was cherished can experience with his heart, not just senses, the smell of a flower, the touch of wind on his hair, or the taste of a berry.
Let her share her feelings with you, do not think they are not serious and childish – for this little soul it is ultimately important to find support and compassion in her parents.
Govern your actions with respect to his emotional world and always try to put yourself in his tiny shoes to try and see the world through those innocent eyes full of love and devotion.
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